Frequently Asked Questions

Grownup Birthday Parties: Frequently Asked Questions

Q: How soon should I send birthday party invitations?

A: Send the party invitations 3-4 weeks in advance.

Q: Is it ok to have an "over the hill" party for someone who's turning 30?

A: Absolutely! 30 is definitely not over the hill (even if it feels like it to the birthday person), so it can end up being quite amusing.

Q: Should I ask guests to bring gifts to the party?

A: You should NOT ask guests to bring gifts - it should be left to their own discretion. However, if you do not want guests to bring gifts, include a statement such as, "No gifts please," on the invitations.

Q: Do I need to hand out favors for a grownup birthday party?

A: Favors are not necessary for grownup birthday parties, but if you choose to hand them out, it won't be frowned upon.

Q: I'm not opposed to serving alcohol at the birthday party I'm hosting, but I'm not sure if I can afford it. Can I ask people to bring their own?

A: Yes! Simply include a line such as "BYOB" or "Please bring your own wine or beer" on the invitation.

Q: Do I need to serve a full meal at a grownup birthday party?

A: That depends on the type of party it is and what time of day it will be held. If it's an informal affair, snack foods, chips & dips and prepared salads are fine - and if it's a mid-afternoon party or at 7 pm or later, there's no need to serve a full meal.

Q: Are surprise parties still in style?

A: Surprise parties are always in style! But if this is the direction you want to go, make sure you have plenty of help. It takes a lot of coordination to ensure that the guests' cars are hidden and everything goes off without a hitch.

Q: Can I ask guests not to bring their children to a grownup birthday party?

A: Yes. On the invitation, include something like "Sorry, no children," or "Adults Only." If you definitely want children to attend, include a statement such as "Children Welcome," on the invitation.