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20 HABITS THAT WILL DESTROY YOU by Jamesboy Imani

PREFACE
I would love to use this opportunity, to thank everyone, who has stood by me, from day one, up to this juncture; family, friends, and everyone else in their respective capacity.
I would like to appreciate, the different organizations, that have seen me reach this far, ranging from church organizations, and all the other forms of organizations.
My greatest thanks, go to our Heavenly FATHER, who knew me, even before I was born. HE has stood by me, all throughout the different life stages. I mostly thank HIM, for the salvation, that HE has granted me, and every other believer, through HIS son JESUS CHRIST.
I thank the HOLY SPIRIT, for inspiring me, to write this book.
Be blessed!
Yours Faithfully,
Jamesboy Imani.

 

 

TABLE OF CONTENTS
ANGER
VULGAR/OBSCENE LANGUAGE
DISHONESTY/TELLING LIES
PRIDE
HATRED/REVENGE
GREED
UNFORGIVINGNESS
SELFISHNESS
LOVE FOR PLEASURE/ENTERTAINMENT
LAZINESS/CARELESSNES
JEALOUSY/ENVY
BAD HYGIENE
UNHEALTHY EATING
DRUNKENNESS
FINANCIAL INDISCIPLINE
INDECENT DRESSING
SEXUAL IMMORALITY

 

 


1• ANGER


Psalms 37:8 -Put an end to your wrath and be no longer bitter; do not give way to angry feeling which is a cause of sin.


Proverbs 14:29 -He who is slow to be angry has great good sense; but he whose spirit is over-quick gives support to what is foolish.


Proverbs 15:18 -An angry man makes men come to blows, but he who is slow to get angry puts an end to fighting.


Proverbs 29:22 -An angry man is the cause of fighting, and a man given to wrath does much wrong.
Ecclesiastes 7:9 -Be not quick to let your spirit be angry; because wrath is in the heart of the foolish.


Ephesians 4:26 -Be angry without doing wrong; let not the sun go down on your wrath.


Ephesians 4:31 -Let all bitter, sharp and angry feeling, and noise, and evil words, be put away from you, with all unkind acts.


2• RUDENESS


Proverbs 15:1 -By a soft answer wrath is turned away, but a bitter word is a cause of angry feelings.
Proverbs 29:11 -A foolish man lets out all his wrath, but a wise man keeps it back quietly.


Proverbs 15:23 -A man has joy in the answer of his mouth: and a word at the right time, how good it is!
Luke 6:31 -Do to others as you would have them do to you.


Hebrews 13:2 -Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it!

 

 

VULGAR/OBSCENE LANGUAGE.


Colossians 3:8 -But now it is right for you to put away all these things; wrath, passion, bad feeling, curses, unclean talk.


Ephesians 5:4 -And let there be no low behavior, or foolish talk, or words said in sport, which are not right, but in place of them the giving of praise.


Ephesians 4:29 -Let no evil talk come out of your mouth, but only what is good for giving necessary teaching, and for grace to those who give ear.


2 Timothy 2:16 -But take no part in wrong and foolish talk, for those who do so will go farther into evil.


Matthew 12:36-37 -And I say to you that in the day when they are judged, men will have to give an account of every foolish word they have said. For by your words will your righteousness be seen, and by your words you will be judged.


DISHONESTY/TELLING LIES


Psalms 34:13-14 -Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from words of deceit.


1 Peter 3:10 -For it is said, Let the man who has a love of life, desiring to see good days, keep his tongue from evil and his lips from words of deceit.


Proverbs 20:17 -Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but after, his mouth will be full of sand.


Colossians 3:9-10 -Do not make false statements to one another; because you have put away the old man with all his doings.


Exodus 20:16 -Do not give false witness against your neighbor.


Proverbs 16:28 -A man of twisted purposes is a cause of fighting everywhere: and he who says evil secretly makes trouble between friends.


Proverbs 12:22 -False lips are hated by the Lord.

 

PRIDE


Proverbs 8:13 -The fear of the Lord is seen in hating evil: pride, a high opinion of oneself, the evil way, and the false tongue, are unpleasing to me.


1 Corinthians 13:4 -Love is never tired of waiting; love is kind; love has no envy; love has no high opinion of itself, love has no pride.


Matthew 23:12 -And whoever makes himself high will be made low, and whoever makes himself low will be made high.


Proverbs 11:2 -When pride comes, there comes shame, but wisdom is with the quiet in spirit.
Proverbs 16:18 -Pride goes before destruction, and a stiff spirit before a fall.


Proverbs 29:3 -A man who is a lover of wisdom is a joy to his father: but he who goes in the company of loose women is a waste of wealth.


Proverbs 8:13 -The fear of the Lord is seen in hating evil: pride, a high opinion of oneself, the evil way, and the false tongue, are unpleasing to me.


James 4:6 -But he gives more grace. So that the Writings say, God is against the men of pride, but he gives grace to those who make themselves low before him.


Proverbs 16:5 -Everyone who has pride in his heart is disgusting to the Lord: he will certainly not go free from punishment.


Psalms 10:4 -The evil-doer in his pride says, God will not make a search. All his thoughts are, there is no God.

 

 

 

 

HATRED/REVENGE


Proverbs 10:12 -Hate is a cause of violent acts, but all errors are covered up by love.


1 John 4:20 -If a man says, I have love for God, and has hate for his brother, his words are false: for how is the man who has no love for his brother whom he has seen, able to have love for God whom he has not seen?


1 John 2:9 -He who says that he is in the light, and has hate in his heart for his brother, is still in the dark.


Matthew 5:44 -But I say to you, have love for those who are against you, and make prayer for those who are cruel to you.


1 John 2:11 -But he who has hate for his brother is in the dark, walking in the dark with no knowledge of where he is going, unable to see because of the dark.


Proverbs 20:22 -Do not say, I will give punishment for evil: go on waiting for the Lord, and he will be your savior.

 

Ephesians 4:31 -Let all bitter, sharp and angry feeling, and noise, and evil words, be put away from you, with all unkind acts.


Matthew 5:43-45 -You have knowledge that it was said, have love for your neighbor, and hate for him who is against you: But I say to you, have love for those who are against you, and make prayer for those who are cruel to you; So that you may be the sons of your Father in heaven; for his sun gives light to the evil and to the good, and he sends rain on the upright man and on the sinner.

 

 

GREED

Mark 8:36 -What profit has a man if he gets all the world with the loss of his life?


Hebrews 13:5 -Be free from the love of money and pleased with the things which you have; for he himself has said, I will be with you at all times.


1 Timothy 6:10 -For the love of money is a root of all evil: and some whose hearts were fixed on it have been turned away from the faith, and been wounded with unnumbered sorrows.


Proverbs 28:25 -He who is ever desiring profit is a cause of fighting; but he who puts his faith in the Lord will be made fat.


1 Timothy 6:9 -But those who have a desire for wealth are falling into danger, and are taken as in a net by a number of foolish and damaging desires, through which men are overtaken by death and destruction.


Matthew 6:24 -No man is able to be a servant to two masters: for he will have hate for the one and love for the other, or he will keep to one and have no respect for the other. You may not be servants of God and of wealth.


Ecclesiastes 5:10 -He who has a love for silver never has enough silver, or he who has love for wealth, enough profit. This again is to no purpose.


1 John 2:16 -Because everything in the world, the desire of the flesh, the desire of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father but of the world.


Psalms 10:3 -For the evil-doer is lifted up because of the purpose of his heart, and he whose mind is fixed on wealth is turned away from the Lord, saying evil against him.


2 Peter 2:3 -And in their desire for profit they will come to you with words of deceit, like traders doing business in souls: whose punishment has been ready for a long time and their destruction is watching for them.

 

 

UNFORGIVENESS


Matthew 6:14 -For if you let men have forgiveness for their sins, you will have forgiveness from your Father in heaven.


Mark 11:25 -And whenever you make a prayer, let there be forgiveness in your hearts, if you have anything against anyone; so that you may have forgiveness for your sins from your Father who is in heaven.


Ephesians 4:32 -And be kind to one another, full of pity, having forgiveness for one another, even as God in Christ had forgiveness for you.


Proverbs 24:17 -Do not be glad at the fall of your hater, and let not your heart have joy at his downfall.


Colossians 3:13 -Being gentle to one another and having forgiveness for one another, if anyone has done wrong to his brother, even as the Lord had forgiveness for you.

 

SELFISHNESS


Proverbs 11:24 -A man may give freely, and still his wealth will be increased; and another may keep back more than is right, but only comes to be in need.


1 John 3:17 -But if a man has this world's goods, and sees that his brother is in need, and keeps his heart shut against his brother, how is it possible for the love of God to be in him?


Galatians 6:2 -Take on yourselves one another's troubles, and so keep the law of Christ.


Hebrews 13:16 -But go on doing good and giving to others, because God is well-pleased with such offerings.


Proverbs 21:13 -He whose ears are stopped at the cry of the poor, will himself get no answer to his cry for help.


Proverbs 28:27 -He who gives to the poor will never be in need, but great curses will be on him who gives no attention to them.


LOVE FOR PLEASURE/ENTERTAINMENT


Colossians 3:5 -Then put to death your bodies which are of the earth; wrong use of the flesh, unclean things, passion, evil desires and envy, which is the worship of strange gods.


James 4:3 -You make your request but you do not get it, because your request has been wrongly made, desiring the thing only so that you may make use of it for your pleasure.


Ephesians 5:5 -Being certain of this, that no man who gives way to the passions of the flesh, no unclean person, or one who has desire for the property of others, or who gives worship to images, has any heritage in the kingdom of Christ and God.


Galatians 5:24 -And those who are Christ's have put to death on the cross the flesh with its passions and its evil desires.


Proverbs 21:17 -The lover of pleasure will be a poor man: the lover of wine and oil will not get wealth.

 

1 Peter 2:11 -My loved ones, I make this request with all my heart, that, as those for whom this world is a strange country, you will keep yourselves from the desires of the flesh which make war against the soul.


2 Timothy 2:22 -But keep yourself from those desires of the flesh which are strong when the body is young, and go after righteousness, faith, love, peace, with those whose prayers go up to the Lord from a clean heart.


1 John 2:15-17 -Have no love for the world or for the things which are in the world. If any man has love for the world, the love of the Father is not in him. Because everything in the world, the desire of the flesh, the desire of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father but of the world. And the world and its desires are coming to an end: but he who does God's pleasure is living forever.

 


FEAR


Isaiah 41:10 -Have no fear, for I am with you; do not be looking about in trouble, for I am your God; I will give you strength, yes, I will be your helper; yes, my true right hand will be your support.


Philippians 4:6-7 -Have no cares; but in everything with prayer and praise put your requests before God. And the peace of God, which is deeper than all knowledge, will keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.


Psalms 56:3 -In the time of my fear, I will have faith in you.


2 Timothy 1:7 -For God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of self-control.


Deuteronomy 31:6 -Be strong and take heart, and have no fear of them: for it is the Lord your God who is going with you; he will not take away his help from you.


Psalms 34:4 -I was searching for the Lord, and he gave ear to my voice, and made me free from all my fears.


Joshua 1:9 -Have I not given you your orders? Take heart and be strong; have no fear and do not be troubled; for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.


1 Peter 5:7 -Putting all your troubles on him, for he takes care of you.


Exodus 14:14 -The Lord will make war for you, you have only to keep quiet.


Psalms 118:6 -The Lord is on my side; I will have no fear: what is man able to do to me?


Lamentations 3:57 -You came near in the day when I made my prayer to you: you said, Have no fear.


Matthew 10:28 -And have no fear of those who put to death the body, but are not able to put to death the soul. But have fear of him who has power to give soul and body to destruction in hell.

 


LAZINESS/CARELESSNESS


2 Thessalonians 3:10 -For even when we were with you, we gave you orders, saying, if any man does no work, let him not have food.


2 Timothy 2:15 -Let it be your care to get the approval of God, as a workman who has no cause for shame, giving the true word in the right way.


Proverbs 13:4 -The hater of work does not get his desires, but the soul of the hard workers will be made fat.


Proverbs 10:4 -He who is slow in his work becomes poor, but the hand of the ready worker gets in wealth.


Proverbs 18:9 -He who does not give his mind to his work is brother to him who makes destruction.


1 Timothy 5:8 -If anyone has no care for his family and those in his house, he is false to the faith, and is worse than one who has no faith.


Proverbs 21:25 -The desire of the hater of work is death to him, for his hands will do no work.


Proverbs 20:4 -The hater of work will not do his ploughing because of the winter; so, at the time of grain-cutting he will be requesting food and will get nothing.


Proverbs 20:13 -Do not be a lover of sleep, or you will become poor: keep your eyes open, and you will have bread enough.


Genesis 2:15 -And the Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to do work in it and take care of it.


Proverbs 14:23 -In all hard work there is profit, but talk only makes a man poor.

 

 

 


JEALOUSY/ENVY


James 3:16 -For where envy is, and the desire to get the better of others, there is no order, but every sort of evil-doing.


Proverbs 14:30 -A quiet mind is the life of the body, but envy is a disease in the bones.


James 3:14 -But if you have bitter envy in your heart and the desire to get the better of others, have no pride in this.


Galatians 5:26 -Let us not be full of self-glory, making one another angry, having envy of one another.


Philippians 2:3 -Doing nothing through envy or through pride, but with low thoughts of self let everyone take others to be better than himself.


Philippians 1:15 -Though some are preaching Christ out of envy and competition, others do it out of a good heart.



BAD HYGIENE


Deuteronomy 23:12-14 -Let there be a place outside the tent-circle to which you may go; and have among your arms a spade; and when you have been to that place, let that which comes from you be covered up with earth: For the Lord your God is walking among your tents, to keep you safe and to give up into your hands those who are fighting against you; then let your tents be holy, so that he may see no unclean thing among you, and be turned away from you.


Genesis 18:4 -Let me get water for washing your feet, and take your rest under the tree.


Exodus 19:14 -Then Moses went down from the mountain to the people, and made the people holy; and their clothing was washed.


2 Samuel 12:20 -Then David got up from the earth, and after washing and rubbing himself with oil and changing his clothing, he went into the house of the Lord and gave worship.


Matthew 6:17 -But when you go without food, put oil on your head and make your face clean.


Hebrews 10:22 -Let us go in with true hearts, in certain faith, having our hearts made free from the sense of sin and our bodies washed with clean water.

 

 

 UNHEALTHY EATING

 

1 Corinthians 10:31 -So then, if it is a question of food or drink, or any other thing, whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.


Proverbs 25:27 -It is not good to take much honey.


Proverbs 25:16 -If you have honey, take only as much

as is enough for you; for fear that, being full of it, you may not be able to keep it down.


Proverbs 23:3 -Have no desire for his delicate food, for it is the bread of deceit.


Psalms 78:18 -Testing God in their hearts, requesting meat for their desire.


Luke 12:23 -Is not life more than food, and the body than its clothing?


Philippians 3:19 -Whose end is destruction, whose god is the stomach.

 

DRUNKENNESS


Proverbs 20:1 -Wine makes men foolish, and strong drink makes men come to blows; and whoever comes into error through these is not wise.


Isaiah 5:11 -Cursed are those who get up early in the morning to give themselves up to strong drink; who keep on drinking far into the night till they are heated with wine!


Isaiah 5:22 -Cursed are those who are strong to take wine, and great in making mixed drinks!


Proverbs 23:31-32 -Keep your eyes from looking on the wine when it is red, when its color is bright in the cup, when it goes smoothly down. In the end, its bite is like that of a snake, its wound like the wound of a poison-snake.


Judges 13:4 -Now then take care to have no wine or strong drink and to take no unclean thing for food.

 

FINANCIAL INDISCIPLINE


Luke 14:28-30 -For which of you, desiring to put up a tower, does not first give much thought to the price, if he will have enough to make it complete? For fear that if he makes a start and is not able to go on with it to the end, all who see it will be laughing at him, and saying, this man made a start at building and is not able to make it complete.


Proverbs 22:7 -He who gets into debt is a servant to his creditor.


Proverbs 21:5 -The purposes of the man of industry have their outcome only in wealth; but one who is over-quick in acting will only come to be in need.


Proverbs 30:25 -The ants are a people not strong, but they put by a store of food in the summer.


Proverbs 3:9 -Give honor to the Lord with your wealth.


Malachi 3:10 -Let your tenths come into the store-house so that there may be food in my house.


POOR TIME MANAGEMENT


Ecclesiastes 3:1-17 -For everything there is a fixed time, and a time for every business under the sun. A time for birth and a time for death; a time for planting and a time for uprooting; a time to put to death and a time to make well; a time for pulling down and a time for building up; a time for weeping and a time for laughing; a time for sorrow and a time for dancing; a time to take stones away and a time to get stones together; a time for kissing and a time to keep from kissing; a time for search and a time for loss; a time to keep and a time to give away; a time for undoing and a time for stitching; a time for keeping quiet and a time for talk; a time for love and a time for hate; a time for war and a time for peace.


What profit has the worker in the work which he does? I saw the work which God has put on the sons of man. He has made everything right in its time; but he has made their hearts without knowledge, so that man is unable to see the works of God, from the first to the last.

 

I am certain that there is nothing better for a man than to be glad, and to do good while life is in him. And for every man to take food and drink, and have joy in all his work, is a reward from God. I am certain that whatever God does will be forever. No addition may be made to it, nothing may be taken from it; and God has done it so that man may be in fear before him.


Whatever is has been before, and what is to be is now; because God makes search for the things which are past. And again, I saw under the sun, in the place of the judges, that evil was there; and in the place of righteousness, that evil was there. I said in my heart, God will be judge of the good and of the bad; because a time for every purpose and for every work has been fixed by him.


Ephesians 5:15-16 -Take care then how you are living, not as unwise, but as wise; making good use of the time, because the days are evil.

 

INDECENT DRESSING.


1 Timothy 2:9-10 -And I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes. For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do.
Deuteronomy 22:5 -It is not right for a woman to be dressed in man's clothing, or for a man to put on a woman's robe: whoever does such things is disgusting to the Lord your God.

 

 



SEXUAL IMMORALITY


Hebrews 13:4 -Let married life be honored among all of you and not made unclean; for men untrue in married life will be judged by God.


1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 -For the purpose of God for you is this: that you may be holy, and may keep yourselves from the desires of the flesh; so that every one of you may keep his body holy and in honor.


1 Corinthians 7:2 -But because of the desires of the flesh, let every man have his wife, and every woman her husband.


1 Corinthians 6:18 -Keep away from the desires of the flesh. Every sin which a man does is outside of the body; but he who goes after the desires of the flesh does evil to his body.


Leviticus 20:13 -And if a man has sex relations with a man, the two of them have done a disgusting thing: let them be put to death; their blood will be on them.

 

Leviticus 18:23 -And you may not have sex relations with a beast, making yourself unclean with it; and a woman may not give herself to a beast: it is an unnatural act.


Ephesians 5:3 -But evil acts of the flesh and all unclean things, or desire for others' property, let it not even be named among you, as is right for saints.

 

 

 SUMMARY

 

In order to live a healthy and happy life, everyone ought to live by the recommendations offered by the Word of GOD.


Everyone ought to review their lifestyle and drop the bad habits for positive results to manifest under the guidance of the Holy Spirit.


Galatians 5:22-25 -But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, a quiet mind, kind acts, well-doing, faith, gentle behavior, control over desires: against such there is no law.


And those who are Christ's have put to death on the cross the flesh with its passions and its evil desires.
If we are living by the Spirit, by the Spirit let us be guided.

 


PARTNER WITH US TODAY


You can choose to be a blessing to our ministry “My Beautifier Community Youth Uganda”, by contributing towards our cause. This can be mostly, through financial contributions, recommendations, and whatever, that GOD puts at your heart, to support HIS work.


We need to do, more reach out programs, countrywide, especially in the teenage and youth population; Which requires a lot of education, and direction towards life challenges. There is also need, to sensitize the general population, including the adult community, about embarking on healthier lifestyle choices, based on GODLY principles.

 

Through mind empowering activities, we hope to see a transformed generation, of young people and community at large.


We plan to do reach outs, through all possible le avenues, but mostly through ground out-reaches in schools, prisons, rehabilitation centers and general communities. We also plan to target, influential television and radio programs and social media.

 

For financial support and partnership in anyway, reach us on the following contacts:
Telephone: +256 785 202419 / +256 755 202419
Email: mybeautifiercommunityyouthug@gmail.com

 

GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY.

 

Yours Faithfully,
James Imani Amanyire (Jamesboy Imani)
Director, My Beautifier Community Youth Uganda.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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