... and wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. Ephesians 5:22
is easy as long as we are in agreement with our husband --but
profoundly hard when his decision conflicts with what we want.)
Nevertheless, as long as the husband is not requiring his wife to disobey God, she must obey Him as she would the Lord.
this is where our faith in God is tested. Do we really trust God to
work out our husband's decisions for good? When we ask our heavenly
Father, He will provide us with the measure of faith to meet this
We have this promise:
Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is
common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be
tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a
way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.